July 2004 - Ref 724
Fathers' involvement with their secondary-school-aged children
This
large-scale study, by a team from Oxford University, explored fathers'
levels of involvement with their secondary-school-aged children, the
nature of fathering and its impact on children. More than two thousand
children and their parents took part in a survey and 26 co-resident
parents and their children were interviewed. The study asked children
to identify a 'father figure' (who might or might not be living with
them and who might or might not be their biological father) and the
term 'fathers' refers to these definitions throughout.
The survey revealed that:
- Resident fathers were more likely to be involved if the mothers
were involved with the children, if the father held egalitarian
attitudes to gender roles and if the children were well-adjusted.

- Non-resident fathers were more likely to be involved with children
if the resident mother was involved, if the separation was more recent
and if there were low levels of conflict between the separated
parents.

- Children living with the person they identified as their father
were likely to be better adjusted if they were living with their
biological father and if their father had good mental health, was
well-educated and highly involved.

- Children were more likely to experience emotional and behavioural
difficulties if there were high levels of conflict between the
parents.

- Children with non-resident fathers were likely to be less
well-adjusted if there were high levels of conflict between parents
and if the mother was not very involved with them.

- Surprisingly, there was no association between non-resident
fathers' involvement and children's well-being. However, this finding
may be due to the nature of the sample and the recruitment process.

- The survey located families on a continuum of parental involvement
and family well-being. Overall, those parents with fewer social and
emotional resources were less involved with their children.

The in-depth interviews showed that:
- Families held fairly traditional views of fathering. The father's
role was 'to be there' and to provide for and guide his children.

- Many fathers claimed that fathering 'came naturally' but they also
admitted that they often lacked the confidence or skills to form close
relationships with their children.

- Fathers' involvement took place against the backdrop of a mutually
supportive relationship with the mother. Fathers in supportive
relationships tended to be more involved with their children.

Background
Although there has been a considerable amount of research into
fatherhood, reviews have shown that much confusion remains about the
nature and significance of fathers' involvement in family life.
Fathers are expected to be involved with their children's upbringing
and to continue their involvement if the relationship with the
children's mother breaks down. This research set out to explore
fathers' involvement from the perspective of both parents and their
children in intact and separated families. The study examined:
- what fathers' involvement means to mothers, fathers and their
children;
- how involved resident and non-resident fathers are;
- what promotes or hinders fathers' involvement;
- the relationship between a father's involvement and his child's
well-being.
The research involved a web-consultation with secondary-school-aged
children to obtain their views about what fathers do. The findings
were then used in the development of a large-scale survey of children
in three secondary schools and their parents. The survey was
complemented by in-depth interviews with 26 'intact' families (where
both biological parents were living with the child). Children were
asked to identify a 'father figure' (who might or might not be living
with them and who might or might not be their biological father) and
the term 'fathers' refers to these definitions throughout.
Because of problems obtaining responses from non-resident fathers and
from all three members of the family, sub-samples of respondents were
used for different aspects of the analysis. This dependence on
'select' groups may have affected the findings.
The level and nature of fathers' involvement
Survey findings based on responses from 2,218 teenagers.
Children completed an 'Inventory of Fathers' Involvement' (based on
Hawkins et al.), covering nine dimensions of fathering. Overall, they
rated resident fathers as more involved than non-resident fathers,
although the difference was relatively small (109 and 96 respectively,
out of a maximum of 130 and a minimum of 26). However, the ratings of
non-resident fathers' involvement varied widely; some non-resident
fathers were rated higher than resident fathers.
Sixteen per cent of children with a non-resident father did not
give a rating on their fathers. This suggests that they had no contact
with their father. Ratings also varied by the level of conflict
between parents and by a family's financial situation. Children in
families with high levels of conflict and in families where children
received free school meals rated father involvement lower.
Resident fathers were scored more highly than non-resident fathers on
each dimension, although on only one dimension was there more than one
point difference between the mean scores. This was on the extent to
which fathers supported mothers ('mother support'), where, as might be
expected, children with non-resident fathers scored them much lower
than did those with resident fathers. Although non-resident fathers
were rated as less involved, many children in step-families still
considered their non-resident father as their main father figure (5
per cent of the 11 per cent of children in step-families).

Resident fathers
Findings based on in-depth interviews with 26 intact families.
The interviews echoed the findings of other research and revealed a
fairly traditional view of fathering, with fathers more involved in
the broader or overseeing aspects of their children's lives rather
than the particular details of day-to-day living. Families described
fathers' responsibilities as 'being there', providing for the family,
planning and guiding. Relatively few fathers took responsibility for
their children's everyday lives.
Most fathers were emotionally close to their children and knew the
type of things their children liked to do, even if they were not
involved in regular activities with them. Many fathers claimed that
fathering just came 'naturally' but some admitted they lacked the
confidence or the necessary skills to form close relationships with
their children.
"I think your personality moulds the way you are, if you've got to
work at being or behaving in a particular way, it's false." (Resident
father)
"I am just not a very good talker, and I find that with the kids as
well really." (Resident father)
In some cases, communication was constrained because of the
father's 'jokey' approach, although mothers and children expressed
considerable appreciation of fathers who 'made the house happy'. Some
fathers admitted that they often found it difficult to understand
their teenagers' moods and behaviour.
Links between resident fathers' involvement and children's
well-being
Survey findings based on responses from 409 resident fathers.
Children with resident fathers were slightly better adjusted than
children with non-resident fathers. Multiple regression analysis
revealed that:
- Children in families with a resident father were better adjusted
if they were living with their biological father, their father had
good mental health, and highly involved. The better educated the
resident father, the better adjusted the children were.
- Children were more likely to be experiencing emotional and
behavioural problems if there was conflict between the parents.
- Fathers perceived sons to be more difficult than daughters.
Overall, factors associated with the 'character' of the family
(such as family members' mental health) were more closely related to
child well-being than poverty (as measured by receipt of free school
meals) and family size, which are factors associated with the family
environment.
Non-resident fathers' involvement and their children's well-being
Survey findings based on responses from 520 children with non-resident
fathers.
The analysis of families with a non-resident father showed that:
- Children were more likely to be experiencing emotional and
behavioural problems if there was a high level of conflict between the
resident and non-resident parent and if the mother was not very
involved with them.
- The analysis also revealed an unexpected finding. Whereas a resident
mother's involvement was significantly associated with greater child
well-being, non-resident father involvement was not. (However, caution
needs to be exercised in interpreting this finding. It is possible
that it reflects the study's recruitment process and potential biases
in the sample. For example, because few non-resident fathers completed
a questionnaire the analysis was based on children's reports of their
fathers' involvement and some measures, such as father's mental
health, could not be included in the analysis.)
What affects resident fathers' involvement?
Survey findings based on responses from 233 mothers, fathers and
children.
Resident fathers were more likely to be involved with their children
if the mother was involved, if the father held egalitarian attitudes
to gender roles and if the children were well-adjusted. The more
difficult fathers believed their children to be, the less likely
fathers were to be involved.
What underlies the factors associated with fathers' involvement?
The survey identified a continuum of involvement and family
well-being. Families at one end of the continuum have highly involved
parents with egalitarian attitudes, high levels of self-esteem and a
supportive and amicable relationship. The interviews with 26 intact
families added to this picture, showing how the parents' relationship
helped fathers to be involved because of the mutual support each
parent provided. The better educated the father, the more likely they
were to be involved; this was not the case for mothers. This is a
surprising finding that is inconsistent with the other factors
characterising 'involved' parents and requires further research.
While the survey highlighted the importance of mothers'
self-esteem, the interviews revealed that more confident fathers who
were more skilled in communication felt more able to get involved with
their children. Some fathers also held strong views about fathering,
seeing it as something that comes naturally and that is not amenable
to change. For fathers lacking confidence these fixed views may make
it difficult to offer support or interventions to improve their skills
and confidence.
Along the other end of the continuum are families characterised by
relatively uninvolved parents who argue frequently and hold
inequitable gender attitudes. In these families, the father is more
likely to be poorly educated and both parents and children are likely
to have low self-esteem or mental health difficulties. Their children
are also more likely to be experiencing adjustment problems. The
interviews with 26 intact families pointed to the difficulties fathers
faced in getting involved as their children went through adolescence.
Children who found the transition to adulthood more difficult than
their peers often had a less involved father. Less involved fathers
were also likely to be in conflict with the child's mother: they
seemed to lack the supportive relationship that the interviews showed
boosted fathers' confidence in and knowledge of getting involved. As
one mother reported:
" 'Supporting you as a parent' ... I am not sure he stops and thinks
about this as being a very serious question a lot of the time ... I do
feel that I am undermined a lot in that he might make a joke about me
or I might say something and behind my back he will you know, laugh
and point, in front of the children ... ." (Mother)
By contrast, another said:
"I think we discuss it because we sort of cling to each other, for
mutual support I think. We put together ideas and there are some
things that William will feel very strongly about and there will be
things that I feel very strongly about." (Mother)
The family's socio-economic circumstances made little difference to
the levels of involvement, although the proxy measure for poverty -
free school meals - may not have been sufficiently sensitive to
differentiate between them.
What affects non-resident fathers' involvement?
Survey findings based on responses from 520 children with non-resident
fathers.
Levels of contact in the sample were higher than those reported by
other studies. For example, 43 per cent of the children saw their
fathers at least once a week. Fathers were more likely to be involved
when the mother was highly involved and if the parents had separated
recently. Conflict between the parents militated against fathers'
involvement. The insight into resident fathers' involvement permitted
by the interviews points to the obstacles non-resident fathers face in
being a part of their children's lives. Because a large part of the
'being there' role is not available to them, non-resident fathers have
to establish new roles and relationships if their contact is to be
rewarding and effective.
Policy implications
The researchers conclude that the findings indicate that promoting
better father-child relationships is about enhancing whole family
well-being. Targeting one problem or one family relationship is not
enough. Potential avenues for intervention include:
- helping parents to build mutually supportive relationships and to
reduce conflict both before and after separation;
- measures to improve children's mental health;
- helping parents to understand the impact of their behaviour and
their relationship on each others' parenting;
- helping fathers to develop confidence in their parenting and
communication skills.
About the project
The study was conducted by an interdisciplinary team from Oxford
University comprising: Eirini Flouri and Ann Buchanan (psychologists),
Elaine Welsh (a sociologist) and Jane Lewis (a social policy analyst).
3,500 children in three schools (inner city, suburban and rural) and
their parents were invited to complete a questionnaire comprising
standardised measures of father involvement and family well-being.
Questionnaires were received from 2,218 children (aged 11-18) and
1,058 parents. In-depth interviews were conducted in the home with a
small sub-sample of survey respondents comprising 26 intact families
(mother, father, child). The data was collected in 2001.
The Inventory of Fathers' Involvement is based on Hawkins, A.J., et
al. (2002), 'The inventory of father involvement: A pilot study of a
new measure of father involvement', Journal of Men's Studies, 10,
183-196.
How to get further information
The full report, 'Involved' fathering and child well-being: Fathers'
involvement with secondary school age children by Elaine Welsh, Ann
Buchanan, Eirini Flouri and Jane Lewis, is published for the
Foundation by the National Children's Bureau as part of the Parenting
in Practice series (ISBN 1 904787 24 X, price £12.95.
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